I'm not gay, but shit.

So last night, I went to one of the funnest shows I have ever been to. I was in a smaller town than mine about 30 miles away. And I had to stay sober. Long story short, there was lots of skanking (sick band) with MANY hot punk girls way older than me. Anyway, when we finally left, my friends (particularly my 21 year old friend Nick who gets around), they all shout at me that there was a hot punk chick that was hitting on me the whole time. And when I thought back, I saw it too. The whole time she was. Just while skanking and shit. What was up with me? It's not like I would have tried to fuck her (she was older, gorgous, drunk, there was no place, and I'm 15). But how the fuck could I have not even noticed? I think I'm a late bloomer or some shit. Pretty much anything to make me feel like such a freak would be nice. I'm the only total virgin in the group and I don't know what's wrong with me.

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Permalink Reply by CorpseQueen on February 28, 2011 at 3:25am

There's nothing wrong with you and theres nothings wrong with being a virgin! It sounds cliche but don't let your friends or age influence you to have sex. You will know when you're ready. As for not noticing, you were having a good time! It's normal to not notice or not think about those things when you're out having a blast.

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Permalink Reply by Josh Also on February 28, 2011 at 3:31am

Thanks. And it's not that their influencing me, it's just that some of them are assholes about it. Still though. I was dancing with her. I kinda should have picked that one up...

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Permalink Reply by Alexis on March 18, 2011 at 10:06pm

I have a boyfriend and I dance with lots of guys at shows. It's mostly because a lot of girls don't dance at shows where I am. Unity at a show is awesome and it doesn't always mean that a girl is into you.

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Permalink Reply by Cpt. Oblivious on February 28, 2011 at 6:38am

Half the time you don't notice when someone's interested in you, I have it all the time. I often finish a night out wondering how I didn't notice it earlier. As for the age thing: Older girls are awesome. I'm 18 and I've hooked up with people between 20 and 27 in the past year and it's pretty damn cool.

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Permalink Reply by Scarlett Fever on February 28, 2011 at 5:20pm

lol there's nothing wrong with you. If you're not gay, you wouldn't be looking for that behaviour. Plus in the middle of a show, there's a ton going on so you can't really be expected to pay attention to every little thing

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Permalink Reply by Alexis on March 18, 2011 at 10:04pm

There is nothing wrong with still having your virginity. I say keep it that way until you are ready and what I prefer, committed. I'd rather have a relationship than random sex.

I also think that you should be into someone too. If you don't have a flirtatious experience with the person then there is a good chance that you are not going to want to be with them anyway. You should want to be with someone as much as they want to be you.

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Permalink Reply by Vox-mercy on March 20, 2011 at 8:56pm

Would this be the first 'missed opportunity'?. At least you noticed. Relax, it'll happen ;).

Also know, that alot of guys lie about the girls they've been with. I known a few that didnt quite turn out to be the casanova they wanted everyone else to belive.

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Permalink Reply by bendy on March 20, 2011 at 10:45pm

fuck who ever u want how ever u want when ever u want its just sex even if ur 15 nothing wrong with that

xxx

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Permalink Reply by Chasity'sCunt on March 21, 2011 at 1:13am

Stay how ever you feel you want to but, dont worry there will be tons of girls in your life time and this wont just be your only opportunity. It also doesn't mean anything that you didn't notice its normal.

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Permalink Reply by Katsenhakeron (Mohawk) on March 21, 2011 at 2:00pm

Fuck their peer pressure! Why rush to do that... A meaningless fuck may feel good in the moment...but it means shit...its fake. Wait for the right time for you! this may sound gay and girlie to some but that macho crap is not your to own!