How many relationships have you been in? Do you find that people dont find you attractive because of your hair or how you dress? What sort of people do you go for? Are you in one now?
I've only been in two serious relationships.
The first one I think was entirely based on apperances, and I eventually just got fucked over which hurt a lot.
The relationship I'm in now is great. My boyfriend accept my mohawk, and plaid pants and all. He used to have one himself.
I tend to go for skinny white boys, preferabley taller, with good taste in music.
I loooooove anything that's kind of "different" liek mohawks, leather jackets, piercings and tattoos, as long as it doesn't look cheesey!
My boyfriend right now has a righteous pomp, which is pretty sick.
It has come as a shock to me that a lot of people where I used to live (and am moving back to) found me extremely attractive. Apparently I'm just really intimidating. Sigh. It's always the same story: someone likes me but they are too afraid to say anything because of my strong personality and by the time they say anything at all, it's too late. Of course...there was one guy that things seemed like they were really going to happen with but my jealous bitch of an ex friend ruined that one. I hate girls.
I go for:(in no particular order)
1.A cocky, smart-ass sense of humor
2.Bold personality
3.Caring, but not clingy.
4.Spontaneous(sitting around watching TV every day is not living)
5.Intellectual(someone on my level for once, eh?)
6.Attractive(not always what you'd expect. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.)
7.I'm a complete sucker for a smile
Nope. People ask me out alot but I just won't date someone just because I'm single.
It's people who are afraid of being single that end up in miserable relationships.
Wait until you find someone you actually like, girls.
I wasn't expecting it! I almost ran off to get married to someone to have a bit of freedom (and live in hawaii) before I got to know Mr. Khaos, haha. I'm glad I didn't. It was for all the wrong reasons.
Who knows what would have happened. O.O (though he said he would have been sitting front and center at my wedding waiting to sweep me off my feet when the part about anyone having any objections came up :-P)
I'm sure everyone will be lucky and happy. Things happen when you least expect it.
I have a funny story I can share later if you're interested about how my boss and her now husband met. haha
So my boss is a tiny girl (I mean, like 5' 5" or so and maybe 105 lbs tiny) and she was set up on a date with her now husband, with out really knowing or seeing the other person before. He had tons of experiences with online dating (mostly bad) where the girls were using the "angles" to make them look really thin and then he was very disappointed when they met. --- Misrepresentation and such. Had they shown actual pictures of them (no angles or no group photos with really thin girls which makes it hard to figure out who is who) he wouldn't have wasted their time or his. haha
So the first thing he said to her was "Well you don't look like you weigh 2000lbs."
And now, they are married, several years later. haha
I have been in quite a few relationships. I dated this one guy for three years that kept trying to get me to "look better" as far as my hair and clothes go. For awhile I went with it... until we ended up living half a country away and I realized what was really going on. Trust me, coming to conclusions like that sucks ass. But I should have expected it since his family was well-to-do I guess. Now when I'm single (I'm married now) I go for people who don't care about any of that superficial crap.
I guess 4 actually relationships and like 3 little ones. Yes, and no, most guys who are interested in me actually dig the look but I do have other people saying I should grow my hair out or whatever. My parents say people will think I am poor or whatever hahah just cause of the way I dress. I tend to go for whoever I like and no I am not in one.