Would anyone cut off their hawk for a girl or a guy? (Everyone's input would be appreciated)

Just wondering what you would do because earlier, me and my so called "best friend" were in a bar helping a few friends with a show(i filled in on guitar for them and he tagged along)and he started telling me all this shit about how i need to cut off my hawk and grow my hair shaggy like that little bitch zac efron. I got pissed!! Im like,"Why the fuck should I?? Look like every other abercrombie clone that walks around with their head up there ass??" He starts listing all like things wrong with punk and metal stuff and sayin its not cool with girls and he's startin to get embarressed of me. I say "what ever! You still aren't popular, even after you changed your look" He says its cause he's hangs with me so he "suffers by association". I say"do me a favor and go back and tell all those hollister bitches to go fuck themselves!!!Fuck you! Fuck them!! fuck everyone that trys to change me into that shit!!!" Then he says I should just get rid of the hawk at least. I could still dress in my metal bands t shirts and stuff but the mohawk has to go. I just said "Go fuck yourself". I got up and grabbed someones beer and smashed the glass into his chest to ruin his $150 hollister shirt, and left.
Now I've been thinkin maybe he's right? Maybe I should shave the mohawk and grow it out? Half of me says I should and it'll really actually be better, but the other half of me says I shouldn't because it wont matter, most of the chicks would still judge me 50 feet away. What should I do??? I used to have long wavy hair all the way down my back and I think that might have been more popular than the hawk. I'm starting to kinda miss it. I don't know what to do? I'm still kinda in shock i guess and stewing from earlier.

Comment by Destin on November 22, 2009 at 9:44pm: dont cut off your hair unless YOU want to. Do what makes YOU happy not what makes others happy. Its not thier hair its yours and if you like it, thats all that should matter. If they dont want to be your friend because of this, then they arnt very good people.

Comment by Freakshow on November 23, 2009 at 10:26pm: Dont Do It. By Personal Experience Its A Horrible Idea. If You Got Friends That Are Embaressed By YOUR Hair. Then They Are Pretty Damn Shallow. Fuck'em. Rock Your Hawk. Dont Give In To What Someone Else Wants For You.

Comment by lil Lauren on November 24, 2009 at 8:37am: y the fuck would u do some dumb shit like that bc of what some1 said if U want long hair have long hair if U want a mohawk have a fucking mohawk if U want to walk around in dipers fucking walk around in a diper but whatever u fucking do don't go by other person option bc guess what u will NEVER be happy in this shit forsaken self-adsorbed greedy fucking world o and also fuck the labels who the fuck cares if ur puck, metal, gangster, or jock who the fuck cares im friends with every type of person there is (well as side from rich people)u know y bc it doesn't and shouldn't fucking matter what label the person is as long as they don't disrespect u and when u get out of school none and i mean none of that shit will matter and fuck the lil popular people 10 years from now they r going to have the same job they have now at wal-mart and wonder what happened to their life bc they don't have their lil friends up there ass fallowing them around them thinking they r cool any more, fucking hell y the fuck dose every1 in this fucking world have to base shit off of how some1 dresses and how their fucking hair is cut fucking christ its a fucking shirt its a pair of fucking pants if u like them ware it, y the fuck do people care about the dumbest fucking shit and take everything they have for granted be fucking happy u have fucking hair to grow out or cut there r fucking people that have no fucking hair grow out or cut and they r dying like really now people make a big fucking deal about dumb shit all the fucking time its fucking dumb as shit i don't get y almost every fucking 1 is greedy and takes shit for granted, and that brings something else to mind to every1 that thinks is fun 2 live in the streets and thinks its bad ass ur a fucking dumb ass i know and knew people that had to fucking live on the fucking street like that they had no home at all, no warmer bed to call their own and that's all really they wanted, its not fun trying to sleep with pain in ur gut bc u haven't eaten in days its not fun sleeping in the rain and cold ass night if anything i see that as disrespecting the true homeless bc they really have nowhere so go and they have the dumb fucks that think its o so cool to live on the streets, mocking them, and the so called homeless that think its o so cool bc they live on the street nothing but dumb argent fuck that thinks their o so righteous well i feel better now :)

Comment by Ezekielpoop on November 25, 2009 at 11:56am: punk isn't about the fashion doode. Seriously. It's a sub culture, a state of mind.
He's not really your friend if he can't accept who you are. And find a girl that cares who you really are, not how you look.

Comment by sean harper on November 26, 2009 at 8:28pm: I tink teh lauren chik put it best, if people don't like your style they can suckit ye? but nevertheless, you shouldnt sport yer shite just for show, do what ye' feel best expresses yourself, i personally see that as the general key to style, i think ye should cut your hair if you really don't like the hawk, but don't deside on some cunt's criticism, freakshow's got a good point

Comment by Mehoe lawd on December 20, 2009 at 6:12pm: if they dont like you, or your personality, (which includes your hair, as its a creativ expression of your personality) they can go find people who they do like th look of, and people who do what they say. dont fucin change for no one. they dont know shit...

and at the end of the day, its just hair. i always sy hair is just hair, (even though i spend ages on changing and alteringing it)

yer wee mate seems like a judgmental cunt to me, and im sorry to say this (if you guys are still hanging around together) HES NOT A REAL FRIEND.

we're all just people. =D

and no, i would never shave my hawk for someone.

Comment by Justin Collins on December 23, 2009 at 7:49pm: nope...if i ever cut my hair....its of my own accord...not because of what people tell me i should do...

Comment by Andy Castillo on January 5, 2010 at 10:03pm: nope, they dont like me the way i am then f--- them... i didn't realize it but one of my ex's go a hawk nearly same time as me and i just found out his g/f made him cut it off...... me? nvr! if i cared what people thought then i wouldn't have done it in the first place... i had 2 friends that stood behind me and the rest hated the idea til i actually did it.... would change a thing either.

Comment by Drew on January 11, 2010 at 8:37pm: i cut off my mohawk for my ex and it was the worst thing i have ever done, it's grown back now but you'll seriously miss it

Comment by Skully Stitches on January 15, 2010 at 7:52am: cant say i'd cut it off for a girl... but when my buddy commited suicide 2 weeks ago, a few of us shaved our heads outta respect for him