Would anyone cut off their hawk for a girl or a guy? (Everyone's input would be appreciated)

Just wondering what you would do because earlier, me and my so called "best friend" were in a bar helping a few friends with a show(i filled in on guitar for them and he tagged along)and he started telling me all this shit about how i need to cut off my hawk and grow my hair shaggy like that little bitch zac efron. I got pissed!! Im like,"Why the fuck should I?? Look like every other abercrombie clone that walks around with their head up there ass??" He starts listing all like things wrong with punk and metal stuff and sayin its not cool with girls and he's startin to get embarressed of me. I say "what ever! You still aren't popular, even after you changed your look" He says its cause he's hangs with me so he "suffers by association". I say"do me a favor and go back and tell all those hollister bitches to go fuck themselves!!!Fuck you! Fuck them!! fuck everyone that trys to change me into that shit!!!" Then he says I should just get rid of the hawk at least. I could still dress in my metal bands t shirts and stuff but the mohawk has to go. I just said "Go fuck yourself". I got up and grabbed someones beer and smashed the glass into his chest to ruin his $150 hollister shirt, and left.
Now I've been thinkin maybe he's right? Maybe I should shave the mohawk and grow it out? Half of me says I should and it'll really actually be better, but the other half of me says I shouldn't because it wont matter, most of the chicks would still judge me 50 feet away. What should I do??? I used to have long wavy hair all the way down my back and I think that might have been more popular than the hawk. I'm starting to kinda miss it. I don't know what to do? I'm still kinda in shock i guess and stewing from earlier.

Comment by Aisha on September 4, 2009 at 6:25am: Who gives a fuck about being 'popular'?!
I've given up caring about all that shit and concentrated on being myself and I've never been happier and I get plenty of attention. I may have had to kick the shit out of some people during my last year of high school but now I've graduated, the way I look doesn't make much of a difference.
Being confident in yourself is a very attractive thing in anyone; people like talking to people who look more extreme if they give off good vibes, they want to be surprised by how nice or interesting you are with all that.
I don't understand how the fuck a friend could ever say all that shit...made me angry to hear that.

Comment by Rios on September 7, 2009 at 8:56pm: Rock the Hawk

Comment by Kim on September 12, 2009 at 8:49am: HA, fuck that shit. Do what you want. If a little bitch is going to judge you based on how you look and not who you are, they weren't worth your time anyway. Be you and if people like it they like it, if they don't, fuck 'em.

Comment by · ··^v´¯`×)§tª®Lª(×´¯`v^· ·· on September 13, 2009 at 11:29pm: Wow... What a tool... One day he's gonna wake up and realize how much of a waste of time it is to try to "fit in" aber fucking crombie style... Has he tried a dick pump? Maybe he needs to not be a prick to get chicks... hmmm...

I love guys with hawks but nothing attracts more then confidence. Especially the kind that isnt egocentric. ;) I would've been pretty pissed if someone stabbed me in the back too, but ya dont need to dish out the drama. Ya can't offend knobs... they're too dumb to get it. I know ppl who "fit in" thru ppl who cant seem to make up their mind who they are... And they're just as fucked up as anyone else! He's gonna pick up a closet crack whore , "high maintanence" twink or a frigid dumb ass live in a boring house and hate his fucking life cause he's too much of a man child to face the fear of being alone... Then she'll cheat on him with a punk or biker. LOL Ya know... Someone who doesnt embarass her by suggesting she get a boob job to "rekindle" the fire. Damb...

Comment by So What on September 14, 2009 at 12:44am: Haha. Well said · ··^v´¯`×)§tª®Lª(×´¯`v^· ··.

Comment by M0HAWK Monkey on September 21, 2009 at 12:04pm: FUCK 'EM! BE TRUE TO YOURSELF! That's what I live my life by!....add me people,I'm still kind of new to this site lol

Comment by Hollywood on September 21, 2009 at 7:14pm: I want to say fuck no, but there's one person I would think about doing it for. I fell madly for this guy after two years together, and I still kind of love him. If he said we would have a shot if I cut my mohawk off, I would probably think about it really hard. Most likely though, I wouldn't do it, because it's me! If he doesn't like it, then he can fuck off. I'm sure he wouldn't ask me that though, but still. Be who you are, regardless of what anyone else thinks

Comment by Bedlam on October 1, 2009 at 6:10pm: fuck that dude, my best girl's been telling me ta shave mine off since i got it. when i got pulled over for an expired lisence plate sticker she says "well, honey, you know they have to be more cautious of you because of your hair." she constantly rags on it, and announces overly loudly to everybody we meet that she thinks my hair is stupid.
FUCK THAT.

if your "best bud" thinks that way, leave 'em hangin'. just say, "if you can't handle it, then fuck off." either they're really your friend and they'll shut up, or they'll leave and yer better with out them. do what you like FOR YOU. not for anybody else.

Comment by Bam on October 4, 2009 at 6:59pm: I they can't accept your look, they ain't worth it. Ca-peesh!

Comment by Becki on October 6, 2009 at 2:48pm: The only person I got rid of my 'hawk for was me, it dyed a death. I couldn't care less if someone hated my hair! It's just a bonus that my bloke-person likes mohawks. That guy can go fuck himself!