Would anyone cut off their hawk for a girl or a guy? (Everyone's input would be appreciated)

Just wondering what you would do because earlier, me and my so called "best friend" were in a bar helping a few friends with a show(i filled in on guitar for them and he tagged along)and he started telling me all this shit about how i need to cut off my hawk and grow my hair shaggy like that little bitch zac efron. I got pissed!! Im like,"Why the fuck should I?? Look like every other abercrombie clone that walks around with their head up there ass??" He starts listing all like things wrong with punk and metal stuff and sayin its not cool with girls and he's startin to get embarressed of me. I say "what ever! You still aren't popular, even after you changed your look" He says its cause he's hangs with me so he "suffers by association". I say"do me a favor and go back and tell all those hollister bitches to go fuck themselves!!!Fuck you! Fuck them!! fuck everyone that trys to change me into that shit!!!" Then he says I should just get rid of the hawk at least. I could still dress in my metal bands t shirts and stuff but the mohawk has to go. I just said "Go fuck yourself". I got up and grabbed someones beer and smashed the glass into his chest to ruin his $150 hollister shirt, and left.
Now I've been thinkin maybe he's right? Maybe I should shave the mohawk and grow it out? Half of me says I should and it'll really actually be better, but the other half of me says I shouldn't because it wont matter, most of the chicks would still judge me 50 feet away. What should I do??? I used to have long wavy hair all the way down my back and I think that might have been more popular than the hawk. I'm starting to kinda miss it. I don't know what to do? I'm still kinda in shock i guess and stewing from earlier.

Comment by Psyco Mike on May 10, 2009 at 10:52am: DO WHAT YOU WANT NOT WHAT EVERYONE ELSE WANTS!!!

when i was growing my hair out to shave into a hawk my friends and everyone liked it but i did it anyway.
i dont want to sound like im dressing it up but when i got my first hawk my gf at the time broke up with me cuz she didnt like it. i didnt care though yeah i lost her but i gained self esteem thats better than being another clone in my opinion

Comment by Kieran TheBear on June 23, 2009 at 8:59am: you mate doesnt know anything, if anything i getting more girls with my mohawk then before, its one of the perks to having a hawk, girls come up to you rather then you having to go on the chase, id even say your mate is jealous of you getting more attension then him, i know acouple of my mates are not too keen on my hawk but the fact is its mine not theres, be yourself man and dont follow the crowd, why be mondane when you can be unique....... trust me life is way to short to hold back on the account of other people......

Comment by Adrian on June 26, 2009 at 2:26pm: I guess I've been a lucky guy, all of my friends likes my mohawk, my teachers likes it, and girls I meet loves it! Haha

Earlier today I got home from a festival, and the whole week people have walked up to me, and asked in a very nice way if they could take pictures of me for their blogg and things like that. I've never felt that anyone judge me because of my mohawk or clothes

I feel I got a little off-topic, but what I am trying to say is; if they judge you, fuck them! If they dont like you because you got a unique style, fuck them. Dont ever let anyone tell you who you are

Comment by tanzmetall on June 26, 2009 at 2:56pm: my bf doesnt like my hawk because his ex who was a huuge cunt cheated on him and she was part of the downtown punk scene...which is a fuckin stupid reason to hate anything i do so i keep it and put it up and if he doesnt like i told him he can fuck off. i wouldnt get rid of my hawk for any reason, not even to get a job, unless i simply just outgrew it and didnt want it anymore.. after all it is just a certain hair style..

Comment by GreyHawk on June 27, 2009 at 5:35am: Rock the Hawk. Don't cut it, you'll regret like I did. Growing back. GH

Comment by GreyHawk on June 27, 2009 at 5:36am: Rock the Hawk. Don't cut it, you'll regret like I did. Growing back. GH

Comment by Zach on July 10, 2009 at 1:21am: FUCK NO! Love me for who I am dammit. Plus you prolly look waaaayyy more kick ass than any Abercrombie wannabe bitch! Everyone should know someone with a mohawk... Life is just more fun.

Comment by Satsuriku Neko on September 1, 2009 at 11:51pm: What a Twat Rocket!! Fuck that guy and the Whores he rode in on. Rock your shit how ever you want! Fuck him if he cant respect that! much love, and good luck with that idiot.

Comment by TeenWolf on September 2, 2009 at 7:06pm: well me and my GF just broke up sorta, and i dont have my hawk anymore but she has one and i would have fully expected her to break up with me if i wanted it gone, the same way it would be if she wanted me to get rid of my chops.

Comment by Ryan 'Pigeon' Westwood on September 4, 2009 at 4:28am: keep it if you like it you shouldnt give a shit
if i listened to people judge me and did what they said i wouldnt be able to walk round in me scruffy boots with i big thing in me ear :P