In defining myself I am too caught up in cause-and-effect: "I am this
because I do that. I am that
because I like this." It's idiotic. There is no right or wrong way to be, so why do I seek to excuse myself? I prize femininity as a way to define my gender as something other than male. Meanwhile, I'm a punk-rocker, so how do I choose to express this? A ten-inch mohican. So cliché. Naturally, such flimsy facades fail under self-examination. If I am truly to express myself then it…
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