Well, I come from another angle - 'cause I don't fit in a label easily. As you know from my profile, I have a fetish for guy's wearing boots and sneakers and yet I don't do or have any interest in sex with either guys or girls.

I also have had straight/gay/lesbian/bi folk having real trouble understanding and not believing that I don't want sex but to be overpowered/dominated by a guy's boots or sneakers. They often assume that I'm not fully 'Out' or I'm lying to myself. I spent a huge amount of time when I was younger trying to work out who I was. My body and mind already made it clear what I liked - it just doesn't fit in an easy well-known label.

So, I can appreciate how you feel singled out. I just find it tiring having to explain to folk 'cause they expect me to follow a set stereotype that I don't - from nearly every sexuality! In some ways it's easier just to use a label they know at first - but I prefer getting things clear from the start 'cause it leads to less assumptions that aren't true.

I think this is because of all the people who are as they say 'Party bi' Giving others a bad rep.That being said these people who look down at bi people because they are not %100 gay or whatever. I find it very hypocritacle for these people to judge people on this when they fight to not be judge because of there sexuality. All in all. If there is not conflict in life what is there. There can be no growth or gain without some rot. Right?

I'm pansexual, and I tend to get a lot of shit from the bi/straight community. A lot of the bi kids I know treat me like I think I'm better then them or something, and they straight people either assume I'm actually a lesbian or actually straight, and I just want to be cool by 'being bi' and jumping on the bandwagon. And, though I'm not asexual, I'm not easily attracted to people, so a lot of people assume I'm asexual.