well, im bi. . . and my ex say me gt off with a girl once and he ran round shouting ''omg omg mimis a lesbian'' and smiled cos he thought it was hot. loads of guys think its hot when they see me get off with a girl. . .
although, more to the subject of this discussion, i remember once when a girl in my class asked me if i was a lesebian, i got really mad and screamed in her face, but she was feeling me up in the middle of class (this was before i came out as bi). she ran across the room. i think she was a bit surprised, as i was "the new girl at school" and she just wasnt expecting me to have such a fuck off temper. lmao.
i wore my hawk for the very first time up at school
i got alot of compliments from both guys and girls. but then i got told i look like a dyke. sure i may not be the most girliest girl out there, but i sure as hell am feminine. it really got to me and i was like tripping all day. and i've dealing with this issue for a long time. but then it got me thinking... beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and plus, i have a boyfrind who makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the whole world, and i'm not trying to impress anyone. what i would have to say is dont let it get to you. or maybe if you wanted you could try dressing in girlier clothing, that will make you the girl with an edge. =}
Story of my life,i had been assumed to be a boy since i was a wee little thing.and ironically grew into a full blown lesbian but aside from that fact due to the stereotype that lesbians look manly go with it and just say,fuck you im a dude of course im into chicks.confuse them even more if they are that close minded then they deserve it.oh,then hit on them thats pretty much the cherry on top of this situation.
i have yet to have this problem come up. once when i was 17 though i was on my way to work, and a belt broke on my car so i was pulled off the hwy waiting for my brothers dad to come fix my car, when i see this cop drive by 3 or 4 times before pulling up to where i was. at this time in my life i had black hair with blood red streaks all through it, and a lot of piercings, i was also very skinny, he gets out asks about the car i tell him whats going on. he then ask if he can search my car, and ask if he will find anything in it. i tell him he can look, and the only thing he will find are empty yahoo bottles and cigarette packs. so he looks and finds a cat toy that he "thought" was a crack sponge (wtf is a crack sponge). i also lived on a private gravel road at the time that made cars very dusty so my friend had wrote "just married gena &dani forever" on my back windshield. so when he seen this he asked if i was a dyke. i just looked at him thinking wow how big of an asshole can one guy be. he then left without asking if i needed any help or anything. gena and i had a big laugh about him thinking i was a drugged up lesbo later though