Lost a relationship over your hair? I need your help!

I've been with my boyfriend for three years. And I love changing my hair, but my bf hates it. Its been chin length, no bangs, betty bangs, side bangs, blonde bangs, streaked, black, long as fuck, "fox-tailed" (I'll add a pic of that one), and now its chopped back to shoulder length. He deals with it but he throw a tantrum like a 2 yr old.

I've been wanting a mohawk for some time now, although I would probably get a faux cuz i have to have my hair.But the dillemma is that my bf will for sure be "done" with me as he says almost everytime we fight.

I don't know what to tell him anymore. I've tried the looks don't matter, beauty's on the inside, the "you had a 'hawk too, even though it only lasted 3 days" approach, and nothing works. He just won't grow a pair and suck it up.

Any ideas?

-----------------------------Update-----------------------------

So him and I got in a fight last week (he left me for another girl who ended up being flakey) and I got my mohawk. Well him and I started talking again. I sent a pic of it spiked (i did 3 big spikes and a few shitty ones in the back, i got lazy lol) and he hates it, but I sent a pic of it down and he thinks its cute is he doesnt look at the uncovered side. HAHA. what now bitch?

I probably wont get back together with him for a (long)while, he lost my trust, but i still wanna be friends.

new pics attached of my mohawk :D

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Permalink Reply by Alyssa on April 5, 2010 at 3:28pm

he's a little bitch who needs a reality check.

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Permalink Reply by spook on April 6, 2010 at 8:38am

sorry to be the bringer of bad news but your b/f is a dick , he is not mature enough for the kind of relationship you desire , leave him now while you still can , the person you seek will love you for who you are , not what your hair is like .

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Permalink Reply by Alyssa on April 6, 2010 at 6:55pm

haha i already knew that. i know he's living life too fast; four dead-end jobs with no future. So either i leave him or i change him. Both are very hard to do. And it doesnt help that i'm in college in Reno, NV and he's stuck in Salem, OR.

Sometimes I think he purposely acts like a dick so that I'll dump him, or he's really just being a dick and i have no clue what it is.