LET'S GET PERSONAL!!!

Ok who out there has had a shitty relationship? How about a horrible breakup? How did you get over it and move on? I got out of a really great relationship that ended in a really shitty way and I'm in the process of moving on, still having trouble though. Interested to know what you guys have been through and how you got through it.

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Permalink Reply by Indigo-Fox on March 2, 2011 at 12:51am

wow! well...

my 1st relationshit was about 2 yrs and i was beat and kidnapped (it was odd) my 2nd one was for almost 5 yrs and added to the phsyical abuse with drugs (prescrip. painkillers are hell), and he also was my fiance he would drag home strippers behind my back. the 3rd one after that i was deeply in love with him and we were together for 2 yrs till we had issues with him and drugs, but we worked things out and i loved him till his passing at 22 yrs of age (miss you matty)

the one after matty, was hell for a better part of the word. the guy i was seeing was a good friend of my ex-fiance, so we dated, i supported him and his band, his dreams and hopes, i would drop everything for him. but alas with him i was on a rotation, friend, girlfriend, fuck buddy, nothing, girlfriend, etc. lol he even hauled off and hit me across the table at the place he took me for my 27th b-day... and when he did end things with me he gave one of the most sorry lines i've ever heard "we are having too much sex"... yeah and he still pops up from time to time in my life, wanting to be "friends"

well after a smudge of guys that didn't pan out after a couple years i've finally found someone who respects me, loves me, and i do the same for him... i finally got lucky.

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Permalink Reply by Scarlett Fever on March 2, 2011 at 12:24pm

Dammmmmn. Well it's great you finally found someone. I hope you don't ever fall into that cycle of mental and physical abuse again!!! No one deserves that

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Permalink Reply by Chasity'sCunt on March 2, 2011 at 1:18am

I'm in my first real relationship. But before my love now i had a kinda "boyfriend" but he wasn't really cause i knew he was sleeping with other girls and stuff. We weren't together but he thought we were and still did those things. What a mighty asshole so i got my revenge. Now i am in a loving happy relationship and it will be a year in about a month :)

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Permalink Reply by punkmonkey on March 2, 2011 at 7:36pm

was married for 17 years was shitty the only good thing to come from it was my son who's now 22 split up and moved on fell for a woman half my age now i have two beautiful baby girls and im as happy as a pig in shit :)